GISELA… MY ALWAYS
FRIEND
I have no memory of the first time I met Gisela, she’s just
never not been in my life. The fact is,
we met in the 1st grade. Did we bond
over our matching braids that fell to our shoulders? Or because we were the tallest girls in the
class? (I stopped being tall in the 8th grade, Gisela kept growing). I don’t know.
Whatever it was, we bonded. She became
my always friend.
I could regale you
with stories from Mrs. Potter’s third grade class ...
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| 3rd Grade. Gisela is in the last seat of the 2nd row, I'm in the lst seat |
... or our Brownie and Girl Scout
Troops… or when we both were part-time teen waitresses and short order cooks at
the Woolworth’s lunch counter (seeing us in hair nets was a scary sight)… or
doing the Lindy together (the only time I ever “led” Gisela) whenever
rock’n’roll music was playing… or as cheerleaders, cheering for our high school
basketball team from the floor of Madison Square Garden as they played for the
NYC championship (we lost in the second round).
We sang in our church choir together, did plies side-by-side
at Miss Mildred’s, were on the same swimming, volleyball and softball teams.
We spent many days and weeks during the summer months body surfing and sunbathing at Parking Lot 5 at Jones Beach thanks to her brother Robert, a lifeguard who graciously took his teen sister and her friend (me) to the beach on the days he worked. We double dated to our high school sorority dances.
We spent many days and weeks during the summer months body surfing and sunbathing at Parking Lot 5 at Jones Beach thanks to her brother Robert, a lifeguard who graciously took his teen sister and her friend (me) to the beach on the days he worked. We double dated to our high school sorority dances.
Once with my cousin, Bruce, as
her date.
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| Poodle hair cut... |
She even came up a few times to my aunt
and uncle’s (Bruce’s parents) summer cottage on Alexander’s Lake in Dayville,
Connecticut, where we swam, canoed and skated at the lake’s roller
rink to organ music as the large disco ball hanging from the ceiling speckled
the wooden floor with white lights like falling stars.
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| The era of the "flip" |
When I was thirteen and my dad died suddenly, she was
there. And not too many years later, I
was there when her mom died.
I was her maid of honor when she married the love of her
life, Ron.
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| The girls from left to right... Ingrid, Penney, me, Susan - I don't remember the flower girl's name |
And she was there during my
first marriage and divorce, and when I found Richard.
But I’d rather tell you about the time she save my
life. Literally.
It was the summer I turned 16 (she would turn 16 in the
fall). Our mothers, who were friends,
decided it would be nice to send us to Word of Life teen camp on an island in
Schroon Lake in upstate New York. We
were athletic and loved sports, so we couldn’t wait to go swimming, boating, hiking,
and horseback riding. When we got there,
Gis and I checked into to our assigned cabin...
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| Gisela & cabin mates |
... then after our first dinner, we followed
our cabin counselor’s instructions to go to the camp auditorium to participate
in a radio show. We found seats near the
top row of this presidium theater and after everyone had filed in, Evangelist Jack
Wyrtzen, the founder of the worldwide Word of Life organization, started preaching
fire and brimstone. Gis and I were
shocked to find ourselves in a full-out revival meeting! In our rather staid Lutheran church (well, in
comparison), congregation members might get the vapors if someone sang too
robustly. Yet, here we were in the midst
of loud singing and chanting, kids coming forward crying and wailing and
falling to the ground begging to be saved.
Well, we still had the beautiful lake for swimming and
boating.
On my 16th birthday, Gisela thought it would be
great fun to take me horseback riding.
Now, I’d ridden a few times, but Gis had taken lessons and was pretty
good. My horse seemed friendly and
accepted my control, so Gisela, our cute male Guide and I hit the trail.
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| cute male guide & Gisela |
We trotted, cantered and galloped through the
woods and were having a grand time when something spooked my horse and she took
off like a bat out of hell. No longer in
control, I held onto the saddle horn for dear life and this time truly prayed
to be saved. The Guide raced after me,
and Gisela’s horse followed. In full
gallop, as I tried to avoid the tree branches whacking my face, my horse brought
us to a narrow ravine. She flew over it
as my heart jumped into my throat. The Guide
and Gisela were right behind me. We were
now on a flat meadow and they chased after me like the heroes of a B-movie western. They finally caught up with me and as the Guide
grabbed my reins. I began to slide out of the saddle. Not to worry, Gisela was there on the other
side and quickly grabbed me and pushed me upright as my horse finally came to a
halt.
I was saved! Maybe
not the "saved" Jack Wyrtzen had in mind, but saved I was by God, Gisela and a Guide.
She was a force and I loved her. I will miss her terribly.
Rest in peace dear Gisela.
